Ex Wife of 8 years

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My ex wife and I had been together for 8 years, after kids and stuff she didn’t seem to want it anymore. It went less and less and she made it seem like a chore. She got a new friend at work that was single and started going out with her. Then it became her new friend and 2 male co-workers going out. (1 married 1 single) I was trying to get her into hot wifing or cucking but she told me no it was weird. They all kept going out a lot then one day she kind of slipped that she liked the other married guy. She walked it back and said she miss spoke on how she ment it. Month or so later I was cleaning out her car found a thong tucked under the seat. I asked her she made up some story. Then her these friend hangout where ending up and hotel bars and regular bars. When I would check her location she would be in the parking lot. After some snooping I found messages of that guy asking her if he’s the first non white cock she’s had? Then I found out she and the other married man where fucking in her car. We split up because of her lies, and how she went about it I was ok with her explore as long as I got to be a part of it but she had sexual and emotional affair. It gets me hard just imagining them fucking though wish I would of actually went and checked on I could maybe got to watch with her not knowing.
 
My ex wife and I had been together for 8 years, after kids and stuff she didn’t seem to want it anymore. It went less and less and she made it seem like a chore. She got a new friend at work that was single and started going out with her. Then it became her new friend and 2 male co-workers going out. (1 married 1 single) I was trying to get her into hot wifing or cucking but she told me no it was weird. They all kept going out a lot then one day she kind of slipped that she liked the other married guy. She walked it back and said she miss spoke on how she ment it. Month or so later I was cleaning out her car found a thong tucked under the seat. I asked her she made up some story. Then her these friend hangout where ending up and hotel bars and regular bars. When I would check her location she would be in the parking lot. After some snooping I found messages of that guy asking her if he’s the first non white cock she’s had? Then I found out she and the other married man where fucking in her car. We split up because of her lies, and how she went about it I was ok with her explore as long as I got to be a part of it but she had sexual and emotional affair. It gets me hard just imagining them fucking though wish I would of actually went and checked on I could maybe got to watch with her not knowing.
Yeah I know how you feel dude, my ex-wife was the same, we were married for 8 years but we got divorced, we used to party a lot and never had any kids which I'm glad, during our marriage my ex-wife left 3 times to be on her own, she would always make the excuse that she had to think about things while at the same time going out with different guys,

The last time she left her best friend whom we used to party with a lot came by our apartment on a Friday to keep me company, Saturday my ex-wife came back to pick up some of her clothes, when she came she saw her best friend walking around just wearing one of my T-shirts so it was obvious what her and I had been doing, she went ballistic yelling and screaming about me cheating on her with her best friend, it was a mess but I finally divorced her and moved on,

Some women don't know how to control themselves and have fun, it's ok when they fuck around but want to rise hell when their husband dies the same thing, my current wife is more understanding and we both agreed before getting married that we could have a little extra if the opportunity came up.
 
Yeah I know how you feel dude, my ex-wife was the same, we were married for 8 years but we got divorced, we used to party a lot and never had any kids which I'm glad, during our marriage my ex-wife left 3 times to be on her own, she would always make the excuse that she had to think about things while at the same time going out with different guys,

The last time she left her best friend whom we used to party with a lot came by our apartment on a Friday to keep me company, Saturday my ex-wife came back to pick up some of her clothes, when she came she saw her best friend walking around just wearing one of my T-shirts so it was obvious what her and I had been doing, she went ballistic yelling and screaming about me cheating on her with her best friend, it was a mess but I finally divorced her and moved on,

Some women don't know how to control themselves and have fun, it's ok when they fuck around but want to rise hell when their husband dies the same thing, my current wife is more understanding and we both agreed before getting married that we could have a little extra if the opportunity came up.
Yea she knew how I felt about it, but she lied instead and double down on she was not having an affair. I told her I would have worked through it with her. If it was something she liked doing was screwing other men. But instead she ripped me apart and made feel like ....... Even though she was cheating
 
Yea she knew how I felt about it, but she lied instead and double down on she was not having an affair. I told her I would have worked through it with her. If it was something she liked doing was screwing other men. But instead she ripped me apart and made feel like ....... Even though she was cheating
My ex-wife's best friend and I always got along good, she was single and she used to tell me that I didn't have to put up with my wife's excuses and that she was always there for me if I needed her, sometimes I think about what would've happened if I had stayed with my ex-wife's best friend, she was gorgeous and a lot more fun and exciting than my ex-wife.
 
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My ex wife and I had been together for 8 years, after kids and stuff she didn’t seem to want it anymore. It went less and less and she made it seem like a chore. She got a new friend at work that was single and started going out with her. Then it became her new friend and 2 male co-workers going out. (1 married 1 single) I was trying to get her into hot wifing or cucking but she told me no it was weird. They all kept going out a lot then one day she kind of slipped that she liked the other married guy. She walked it back and said she miss spoke on how she ment it. Month or so later I was cleaning out her car found a thong tucked under the seat. I asked her she made up some story. Then her these friend hangout where ending up and hotel bars and regular bars. When I would check her location she would be in the parking lot. After some snooping I found messages of that guy asking her if he’s the first non white cock she’s had? Then I found out she and the other married man where fucking in her car. We split up because of her lies, and how she went about it I was ok with her explore as long as I got to be a part of it but she had sexual and emotional affair. It gets me hard just imagining them fucking though wish I would of actually went and checked on I could maybe got to watch with her not knowing.
I told me wife to be that cheating was a deal breaker for me, not sex with someone else. But lying and sneaking around was. Told her that even if you eat the best steak of your life every night for dinner, eventually a greasy, hot, thick, cheeseburger is going to seem like the BEST meal ever......and luckily she took it to heart and when a guy at work started flirting with her and she was interested, she came to me before cheating and we had a GREAT time getting her ready for her "working late Friday date"!!
Has been that way ever since, she lets me know when she is interested in someone and we try to make it happen together. They don't usually know I am aware, they think she is cheating and that seems to work best for them and us.Most were co-workers, so they were able to get together easily and regularly when traveling for business.

I just cant handle cheating or ...............that broke up my first marriage, which was quite good up to that happened. CW
 
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I told me wife to be that cheating was a deal breaker for me, not sex with someone else. But lying and sneaking around was. Told her that even if you eat the best steak of your life every night for dinner, eventually a greasy, hot, thick, cheeseburger is going to seem like the BEST meal ever......and luckily she took it to heart and when a guy at work started flirting with her and she was interested, she came to me before cheating and we had a GREAT time getting her ready for her "working late Friday date"!!
Has been that way ever since, she lets me know when she is interested in someone and we try to make it happen together. They don't usually know I am aware, they think she is cheating and that seems to work best for them and us.Most were co-workers, so they were able to get together easily and regularly when traveling for business.

I just cant handle cheating or ...............that broke up my first marriage, which was quite good up to that happened. CW
I totally agree. I've told my wife she can fuck other guys, but she has to at least tell me about it after.