Get a Divorce or Cuck! I chose Cuck!

[daddy4use69]

After 20 years of marriage, my wife surprised me with a desire to either get a divorce or open our marriage to other men, not women, but men. We are both in our mid 50s and in good shape. We've had a great sex life, but things have been falling off. I've heard her on the phone at times and she stays in the car in the garage when she gets home, telling me it's her brother or one of the kids. I knew something was up. I don't want a divorce, but I don't know how being a cuck will work. She said I can either watch and even participate or leave the house when she has a man in. I still love her and am seriously thinking about accepting her ultimatum as it is. I've always fantasized about seeing her being fucked. I'm also kind of secretly bi and have sucked a few cocks over the years. I think I know what I'm going to say.

We live in Las Vegas

Thoughts?

 

[J dom]

Pic?

 

[J dom]

Sounds like she already has a bull, but if its not already happening you should find her a bull that will let you do clean up. Just go for it and stop worrying.

 

[coastalkid]

I think the biggest factor in all of this is, is she mad/frustrated/unsatisfied with you? Since she's the one that has suggested the ultimatum of divorce or open marriage she must, 1) be dissatisfied with her sex life with you, and 2) be unconcerned about what your decision moving forward will be. Even if you use this as an opportunity to explore your bisexual curiosity it still doesn't address what your everyday relationship will be like with her. If you are ultimately irrelevant to her then what are your chances of having any meaningful relationship with her? Hopefully she's open to discussing what her reasoning is behind her ultimatum.

 

[CuckmeCleveland]

I concur with Costalkid. After two decades? This didn’t occur in a vacuum.

You worked it out that she wasn’t talking to her brother or a kid; but you were still broadsided/blindsided by this. I think you need to acknowledge that you your [plural] need to reconnect.

In your shoes, I’d want to know about her connection with this man [but know the generic ‘a man’ could imply ‘men.’]. At this point, she is clearly determined to be sexual with him. But is she emotionally involved with him? Her readiness to end it with you suggests she may well be — or at the very least that your relationship with her is effectively derailed. So find out where things stand.

You also need to look at your issues and decide with what you can live. That likely requires honesty and hard, emotional work on your part. What can you accept-not accept? What are your boundaries? What can you accept-not accept re: her lover? I would want to process this WITH her.

If you’re good with and are agreed on the issues, you may as well ask her, ‘so when do I get to meet the lucky guy.’ it’s pretty clear that she has!

Edit: eliminate strike through text? 😳

 

[stubbyhubby]

I chose cuck, but that was 4 months into the marriage. Either way, 4 months or 20 years, it is a great option that I would choose again and again if I had to.

 

[coastalkid]

I chose cuck, but that was 4 months into the marriage. Either way, 4 months or 20 years, it is a great option that I would choose again and again if I had to.

So, can you tell me what kind of sexual attention you get now?

 

[stubbyhubby]

So, can you tell me what kind of sexual attention you get now?

I clean her. For several years she would give me a handjob but after a bull suggested she shouldn't be wasting her time doing that for me she quit.

 

[coastalkid]

I clean her. For several years she would give me a handjob but after a bull suggested she shouldn't be wasting her time doing that for me she quit.

Well, as long you are getting your thrill out of it and you feel truly loved by your wife, then game on brother. Are you just 4 months in and were you given an ultimatum like the OP?

 

[drakebelg]

After 20 years of marriage, my wife surprised me with a desire to either get a divorce or open our marriage to other men, not women, but men. We are both in our mid 50s and in good shape. We've had a great sex life, but things have been falling off. I've heard her on the phone at times and she stays in the car in the garage when she gets home, telling me it's her brother or one of the kids. I knew something was up. I don't want a divorce, but I don't know how being a cuck will work. She said I can either watch and even participate or leave the house when she has a man in. I still love her and am seriously thinking about accepting her ultimatum as it is. I've always fantasized about seeing her being fucked. I'm also kind of secretly bi and have sucked a few cocks over the years. I think I know what I'm going to say.

We live in Las Vegas

Thoughts?

Hmm. It doesn't sound that she cares for you at all, and even if you say okay to cuck she will eventually divorce you anyway, or just use you for financial reasons. Can you give some more info?

 

[coastalkid]

This is the difficulty with sites like this and others. Some people come here looking for masturbation material, others come here looking to learn more about a lifestyle that they want to know more about. When these extreme situations come up it always evokes a doubt about their veracity. That doubt is colored by what others consider to be normal and or acceptable.

This site is associated with a small segment of society that indulge in an unconventional lifestyle. When you consider that, the ability to discern the truth from fantasy is even more difficult because there are very small groups of people that do anything extreme. When you consider activities like skydiving, bungee jumping or whitewater river rafting they all have a very, very small population that do those things, yet they do do them.

I have a friend that likes to put queso flavored potato chips on his ice cream. I've seen him eat it that way several times. I just shake my head and have to accept that he truly does like that. I feel the exact sense of disbelief when I read here about permanent denial, permanent chastity, permanent servitude, and extreme humiliation. The inevitable question always surfaces, how many people really do this sort of thing? But some do.

It is ironic to me that someone posts about being ....../manipulated/forced to accept a primarily asexual (or greatly diminished) lifestyle on a forum/website about sex. The hook to this is, these extreme situations are diametrically in opposition to what is observed as a culturally accepted monogamous norm.

Your response is right in line with my thinking drakebeig. We've both read enough here to see the tell tale signs of a frequently replayed scenario that has equally frequent and very predictable results/outcomes. In this case, I believe you feel what I feel from this post. If she doesn't appear to care about him, what does he have to look forward to, when will his wife lose interest in having achieved fully subjugating her husband?

It brings the possibility of reality when I read about how these people make these relationships truly work. I get that the vivid descriptions of the situation are appealing, but to me there's much more depth to my interests when I can learn what they did to make it work and last.

 

[stubbyhubby]

Well, as long you are getting your thrill out of it and you feel truly loved by your wife, then game on brother. Are you just 4 months in and were you given an ultimatum like the OP?

I couldn't be happier!

Not exactly like the op, but we were on the verge of divorce and I suggested she try fucking someone else and we stay married rather than her divorce me and still end up fucking someone else. She agreed to give it a shot and when she saw how positive I was about it everything got better. No more talk about divorce ever again.

 

[coastalkid]

I couldn't be happier!

Not exactly like the op, but we were on the verge of divorce and I suggested she try fucking someone else and we stay married rather than her divorce me and still end up fucking someone else. She agreed to give it a shot and when she saw how positive I was about it everything got better. No more talk about divorce ever again.

When you say everything got better does that mean you still have sex with your wife? Did you and your discuss anything about her developing feelings for someone else? Since divorce was an issue to you, have you had any discussions about her wanting to leave you if she does develop a relationship?

At the start of this post you said, "I couldn't be happier!" What is the thing that has given YOU personally the most pleasure out of this? It's not difficult to imagine what she gets. I'm specifically interested in what YOU are getting out of it. If it's all about her it seems like that doesn't do much for you. What is her attitude towards you being happy too?

I'm interested in being realistic and in reality everybody gives something in a real relationship.

 

[coroner7]

After 20 years of marriage, my wife surprised me with a desire to either get a divorce or open our marriage to other men, not women, but men. We are both in our mid 50s and in good shape. We've had a great sex life, but things have been falling off. I've heard her on the phone at times and she stays in the car in the garage when she gets home, telling me it's her brother or one of the kids. I knew something was up. I don't want a divorce, but I don't know how being a cuck will work. She said I can either watch and even participate or leave the house when she has a man in. I still love her and am seriously thinking about accepting her ultimatum as it is. I've always fantasized about seeing her being fucked. I'm also kind of secretly bi and have sucked a few cocks over the years. I think I know what I'm going to say.

We live in Las Vegas

Thoughts?

Where does the line start to fuck your wife? haha kidding but I hope that you make a decision that you are comfortable with.

 

[Bowlerlb]

After 20 years of marriage, my wife surprised me with a desire to either get a divorce or open our marriage to other men, not women, but men. We are both in our mid 50s and in good shape. We've had a great sex life, but things have been falling off. I've heard her on the phone at times and she stays in the car in the garage when she gets home, telling me it's her brother or one of the kids. I knew something was up. I don't want a divorce, but I don't know how being a cuck will work. She said I can either watch and even participate or leave the house when she has a man in. I still love her and am seriously thinking about accepting her ultimatum as it is. I've always fantasized about seeing her being fucked. I'm also kind of secretly bi and have sucked a few cocks over the years. I think I know what I'm going to say.

We live in Las Vegas

Thoughts?

She is at that age where she has a big need for good sex and to enjoy her sexuality. She is at her peak need and you are dropping off in performance. Enjoy the change.

 

[Hotwifelove]

I love being a cuck
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[TommyFunn]

After 20 years of marriage, my wife surprised me with a desire to either get a divorce or open our marriage to other men, not women, but men. We are both in our mid 50s and in good shape. We've had a great sex life, but things have been falling off. I've heard her on the phone at times and she stays in the car in the garage when she gets home, telling me it's her brother or one of the kids. I knew something was up. I don't want a divorce, but I don't know how being a cuck will work. She said I can either watch and even participate or leave the house when she has a man in. I still love her and am seriously thinking about accepting her ultimatum as it is. I've always fantasized about seeing her being fucked. I'm also kind of secretly bi and have sucked a few cocks over the years. I think I know what I'm going to say.

We live in Las Vegas

Thoughts?

My biggest fear is feeling inadequate. There's nothing a person can do to change their inadequacy in sex unless it's stamina. Being a cuck scares the hell out of me but at the same time it turns me on. I've sucked cocks before too and I'd love to be able to participate even more than strictly watching. If I were in your shoes, I'd try being cucked for a while to see what it's like. If it isn't for you and she is still ...... around, leave her.

 

[420destiny]

I wanted my wife to cuck me and she did, then she cheated with one of the men later, and it was either break up or accept it, I chose to accept it.

 

[jonathan246]

Simple choice and in this case she did the work. Hope that you get to watch, it is a very hot experience

 

[jsaltydog]

After 20 years of marriage, my wife surprised me with a desire to either get a divorce or open our marriage to other men, not women, but men. We are both in our mid 50s and in good shape. We've had a great sex life, but things have been falling off. I've heard her on the phone at times and she stays in the car in the garage when she gets home, telling me it's her brother or one of the kids. I knew something was up. I don't want a divorce, but I don't know how being a cuck will work. She said I can either watch and even participate or leave the house when she has a man in. I still love her and am seriously thinking about accepting her ultimatum as it is. I've always fantasized about seeing her being fucked. I'm also kind of secretly bi and have sucked a few cocks over the years. I think I know what I'm going to say.

We live in Las Vegas

Thoughts?

Go for it. Wish my wife made such a demand in our marriage.