How to move beyond talk

[getwifetopplay]

Ok thought i would update a few mo tha ago I though I had my wife over the edge. She was joking about other guys and we watching porn.

Anyways she backed off and suddenly just stopped talking about it.

I did not push it because she is very conservative. I been the only she been with. Anyways it been pretty cool but she still once iin a while jokes when she is Horney.

I know she is into fucking other guys since practically told me tht is every womens fantasy. Trying to tip toe around though I pretty much get shut down.

Not sure how to approach it or do I need to be patient.

 

[CHIBLKSTUD]

Get "shut down" how?

 

[getwifetopplay]

Get "shut down" how?

Just went quiet and didn’t talk or joke about it for a bit. After few months she will joke again but haven’t pushed it.

 

[Caldosch]

It's a very slow process sometimes. It took years before my wife would get really into the dirty talk aspect of it. Really depends on the individual.
My advice is not to push it but at the same time, make small comments here and there about it so the idea is always there.

 

[Ro66]

Ok thought i would update a few mo tha ago I though I had my wife over the edge. She was joking about other guys and we watching porn.

Anyways she backed off and suddenly just stopped talking about it.

I did not push it because she is very conservative. I been the only she been with. Anyways it been pretty cool but she still once iin a while jokes when she is Horney.

I know she is into fucking other guys since practically told me tht is every womens fantasy. Trying to tip toe around though I pretty much get shut down.

Not sure how to approach it or do I need to be patient.

I know what you mean, I have got to the point where my wife will talk about it and tease me about it but always pulls back when the tone moves from teasing to a more serious discussion. She also tells me a fantasy of hers is to play with 2 cocks at the same time as long as one is mine but when I suggest that we make that happen she just laughs it off. I enjoy the teasing so I don’t want to ruin what we do have so I am being patient and hoping that she will take it that step further one day.

 

[margaret&richard]

It's a very slow process sometimes. It took years before my wife would get really into the dirty talk aspect of it. Really depends on the individual.
My advice is not to push it but at the same time, make small comments here and there about it so the idea is always there.

So true. Took my husband years to finally convince me this was a good idea. Initially couldn't understand why on earth a husband would want their wife to do something like this but it seems many husbands do. I say fortunately now as I enjoy being with other men, my husband was persistent. It wasn't over the top but more subtle and certainly consistent. It was in the videos he would show us, magazines, websites, even bought some paperback books for me to read, lol. I think as i got older, I became somewhat curious as like you, had only been with my husband up until that time. I was admittedly scared and pretty nervous after agreeing to do this but can honestly say I have no regrets and wished I hadn't held out for so long. My advice to do as you see fit is simply to maintain that consistent, yet subtle approach. Keep it in her mind, getting her to think about it more often, do not push or pressure her to do it. She will let you know when she is ready.

 

[getwifetopplay]

When she fucking and horny she has no problem talking about it. She loves almost teasing me.

The hard oart is how to have a serious conversation about to and then acting on it.

Not sure if it would be easier to start off swinging.

i am just having a hard time coming up with a way to make this happen and have the conversation.

 

[TheCABull]

When she fucking and horny she has no problem talking about it. She loves almost teasing me.

The hard oart is how to have a serious conversation about to and then acting on it.

Not sure if it would be easier to start off swinging.

i am just having a hard time coming up with a way to make this happen and have the conversation.

I would highly suggest being patient and taking things slow. When she’s not horny how does she feel about this topic ? Does it make her horny ?

 

[shorebird]

I think that role playing is a very powerful step along the way to this activity.

 

[robbiewillsucku]

Start licking her pussy clean after you fuck her - do this each time then after a few times - why you are licking her pussy - you say I am fantasizing that you fucked a cock earlier today and I am licking his cum from your pussy.

 

[Wetandwild40s]

My wife finally admitted after 20 years of marriage that she fantasized about me licking her out after I cum inside her. I asked her if she would want me to clean up her pussy after multiple men had fucked and filled her up. She replied that she would never ask me to lick her out after that. It only struck me the next day that she only said she wouldn't ask me to clean up, not that she wouldn't fuck multiple men at once. That was when I finally realized that I might have a chance of being cuckold!

 

[vcoop]

Ok thought i would update a few mo tha ago I though I had my wife over the edge. She was joking about other guys and we watching porn.

Anyways she backed off and suddenly just stopped talking about it.

I did not push it because she is very conservative. I been the only she been with. Anyways it been pretty cool but she still once iin a while jokes when she is Horney.

I know she is into fucking other guys since practically told me tht is every womens fantasy. Trying to tip toe around though I pretty much get shut down.

Not sure how to approach it or do I need to be patient.

other than your type - do you know what other men she likes or fantasizes?

 

[Stevens4fun]

Margaret nails it in her post earlier. Most importantly, you've shared your fantasy with your wife. If you make it into a campaign or start turning the screws on her, she'll back away from the whole idea. Right now, even though it's been months, she's thinking it over and she's thinking about men she knows or might get to know - how it could all fit, the depth of the relationship she'd want and what the impact on your marriage and YOU would be. She didn't sign up for this, so what you are asking is a big "ask" but you will be rewarded as long as it doesn't become a campaign and is all you talk about while the two of you have sex. Just keep it as part of the mix.

 

[vrmtr1]

Margaret nails it in her post earlier. Most importantly, you've shared your fantasy with your wife. If you make it into a campaign or start turning the screws on her, she'll back away from the whole idea. Right now, even though it's been months, she's thinking it over and she's thinking about men she knows or might get to know - how it could all fit, the depth of the relationship she'd want and what the impact on your marriage and YOU would be. She didn't sign up for this, so what you are asking is a big "ask" but you will be rewarded as long as it doesn't become a campaign and is all you talk about while the two of you have sex. Just keep it as part of the mix.

I'm doing myself the same, NOT to make it into a campaign. My wife knows I'd like to share her, we have watch porn, visited a life style resort and she read faithful hotwife...she is playing along with the idea and topic....I'm hoping she will find the next step for us!