Interested to hear if this has augmented your sex life with your partner or replaced it?

Interested to hear if this has augmented your sex life with your partner or replaced it? I have a fantasy of watching my wife have sex with 2 men (I am not one of the 2). We are very sexually active despite being together for 15 years. I would like to do this one time on a special occasion and kind of have it mapped out. Would I consider repeating it, maybe, not sure yet but I intend to keep having sex with her .

In your experience is this feasible? Am I tempting fate? What were your intentions and did they work out. Were you sexually active prior? I understand in some situations die to health etc men who cannot perform sex acts any longer choose to watch, I am more interested in hearing from those in a similar situation as mine how you began and did it work out as you hoped or to an acceptable situation?

Do they still want to ...... with you or once they have 2 cocks at once they can never go back? It looks like our first MFM will be myself and a friend with her so in that case I am part of it but curious to hear feedback.
 
Interested to hear if this has augmented your sex life with your partner or replaced it? I have a fantasy of watching my wife have sex with 2 men (I am not one of the 2). We are very sexually active despite being together for 15 years. I would like to do this one time on a special occasion and kind of have it mapped out. Would I consider repeating it, maybe, not sure yet but I intend to keep having sex with her .

In your experience is this feasible? Am I tempting fate? What were your intentions and did they work out. Were you sexually active prior? I understand in some situations die to health etc men who cannot perform sex acts any longer choose to watch, I am more interested in hearing from those in a similar situation as mine how you began and did it work out as you hoped or to an acceptable situation?

Do they still want to ...... with you or once they have 2 cocks at once they can never go back? It looks like our first MFM will be myself and a friend with her so in that case I am part of it but curious to hear feedback.
Watching my wife with 2 men is my fantasy also. Hasn't happened but we're still above ground so who knows. Good luck with that.
As for no longer having sex with your wife, if you are sexually active now you will most likely be MORE sexually active after. At least that's how it is for us.
 
I have shared my wife with the same guy for over thirty years and it has certainly improved our sex life. At first it was threesomes but after a while she started to see him when I was working away and from then she has become even more willing to experiment and the tell me all about it when I get home.
The guy is a very dominant guy and has turned her into a sub and she has done things I could never have imagined her doing. When she tells me all about it I then have the option to try it myself if its something that appeals to me so it really has kept our sex life hectic and fresh.
One last thing is if you find the right guy he might want to share her with others, that would mean you get to see your fantasy become reality.
 
I have shared my wife with the same guy for over thirty years and it has certainly improved our sex life. At first it was threesomes but after a while she started to see him when I was working away and from then she has become even more willing to experiment and the tell me all about it when I get home.
The guy is a very dominant guy and has turned her into a sub and she has done things I could never have imagined her doing. When she tells me all about it I then have the option to try it myself if its something that appeals to me so it really has kept our sex life hectic and fresh.
One last thing is if you find the right guy he might want to share her with others, that would mean you get to see your fantasy become reality.
We're hoping we've found the right guy. She's been with him twice in the last few weeks. I'm hoping he wants to share her with his friends.
 
Inviting others into our bed has augmented our sex life, for sure. We were/are active. but sex is 'more interesting' now. Most of our 'fun' is mfm or mmf. My wife does not tend to talk about sex, or during sex. But, if I bring up past 3 somes and start describing what she/he did, it's obvious she enjoys it. She gets noticably wetter and will cum soon after. Win/win!
We've discussed her having 2 men and me watching, hopefully we'll make it happen
 
Inviting others into our bed has augmented our sex life, for sure. We were/are active. but sex is 'more interesting' now. Most of our 'fun' is mfm or mmf. My wife does not tend to talk about sex, or during sex. But, if I bring up past 3 somes and start describing what she/he did, it's obvious she enjoys it. She gets noticably wetter and will cum soon after. Win/win!
We've discussed her having 2 men and me watching, hopefully we'll make it happen
That MFM while watching is what originally peaked my interest and had me bring it up to her. so far we did do a MFM but I was part of it. I think it will take a bit before she is ready for it.
 
My husband wasn't really ready for this when I first brought it up with him. We had a really bad sex life and my needs weren't being met. We discussed it a number of times and established some rules, and then he was ready. There was some jealousy at first on his part, but he told me that is one of the things he likes. Our sex like is much better and hotter now than it was before I had lovers.
 
We have been married a very long time. KK, my wife was never faithful, even from the time we started dating. Our lives were a series of destructive affairs, infidelities, cheating until we hit 40, then we had a crisis. Long story short, we evolved into the hot wife thing (which is technically cuckolding, but that's another discussion).

We've been doing the hot wife thing for the last 20+ years, now evolved into sort of a poly thing; KK has two full-time, live-in lovers, Andy and David, and we have a third, part-time, much younger fuck-buddy, Paul. So yes, things have changed greatly, and what we're doing now has largely replaced our past sex life/relationship.

In our case, KK loves both Andy, and David, and they her - they both left their wives for her. Paul is just a fuck-toy.
 
Married 25+ years. Good sex life for years, eventually tapered off. Both of our faults.
We did a quick hotwife thing with a guy we know about 5 years ago. He split right after. Wife cried and apologized over and over. I wasn't happy about it. Alcohol you know... Happened again about 6 months later, same guy, same outcome. Wife pretty horny for couple of weeks after tho.
We did it with him 6 times in 2 1/2 years. Just worked up to more often. We got comfy with it. It's a pretty regular thing for us now.
It has improved our sex life like crazy. Wife is horny as fuck for days after. It works for us.
 
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Inviting others into our bed has augmented our sex life, for sure. We were/are active. but sex is 'more interesting' now. Most of our 'fun' is mfm or mmf. My wife does not tend to talk about sex, or during sex. But, if I bring up past 3 somes and start describing what she/he did, it's obvious she enjoys it. She gets noticably wetter and will cum soon after. Win/win!
We've discussed her having 2 men and me watching, hopefully we'll make it happen
That's pretty much us also
 
I have shared my wife with the same guy for over thirty years and it has certainly improved our sex life. At first it was threesomes but after a while she started to see him when I was working away and from then she has become even more willing to experiment and the tell me all about it when I get home.
The guy is a very dominant guy and has turned her into a sub and she has done things I could never have imagined her doing. When she tells me all about it I then have the option to try it myself if its something that appeals to me so it really has kept our sex life hectic and fresh.
One last thing is if you find the right guy he might want to share her with others, that would mean you get to see your fantasy become reality.
Is your Longterm Bull a major part of your life? Are you friends and get along outside of the bedroom? I’m very curious about your dynamic since 30 years is incredible and I’m happy for you.
 
Is your Longterm Bull a major part of your life? Are you friends and get along outside of the bedroom? I’m very curious about your dynamic since 30 years is incredible and I’m happy for you.
I share her with my brother. When sex isn't involved we have a normal relationship with him.
 
Watching my wife with 2 men is my fantasy also. Hasn't happened but we're still above ground so who knows. Good luck with that.
As for no longer having sex with your wife, if you are sexually active now you will most likely be MORE sexually active after. At least that's how it is for us.
That's exactly how it is for us too and we've tried all sorts of variations MFM, MMFM, MMMFM etc.
 
You never want to be replaced permanently. But short term exclusive sex with lovers can be sexy. Something like her birthday month is exclusive for her lovers. I’m a numbers guy, so secretly tracking the number of lovers, number of sexual events & duration is a turn on. Knowing for a month she experienced 7 lovers, had sex 23 times for a combined 18 hours of sex turns me on. Her numbers grow, mine stay the same.
 
Interested to hear if this has augmented your sex life with your partner or replaced it? I have a fantasy of watching my wife have sex with 2 men (I am not one of the 2). We are very sexually active despite being together for 15 years. I would like to do this one time on a special occasion and kind of have it mapped out. Would I consider repeating it, maybe, not sure yet but I intend to keep having sex with her .

In your experience is this feasible? Am I tempting fate? What were your intentions and did they work out. Were you sexually active prior? I understand in some situations die to health etc men who cannot perform sex acts any longer choose to watch, I am more interested in hearing from those in a similar situation as mine how you began and did it work out as you hoped or to an acceptable situation?

Do they still want to ...... with you or once they have 2 cocks at once they can never go back? It looks like our first MFM will be myself and a friend with her so in that case I am part of it but curious to hear feedback.
It does both at different times. I'm not allowed to cum without permission anymore
 
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