Hi all, long time fan of this site as a lurker.
Background:
Introduced my wife to my bbc cuckold fantasy around 6 months ago. At first she was taken back/surprised like most couples, but has since come around after discussing more and watching IR porn and photos together. My wife is shy/timid and never really initiates this fantasy role play but it has gotten her pretty horny when we exchange dirty texts and she is at least to a point where she is curious and says if she's gonna be with another guy, he better be big. We have gotten a bbc dildo although it's more long than girthy (she was afraid of anything too big to start). It's probably 5 or so inch girth. She does enjoy the dildo. I'm average size (~6 inches, 4+ in girth).
We've been together for 20+years and have a really strong relationship and have been each other's only partners. We have 2 ******* that are middle aged so life is busy.
Although she is probably 6-12 months away from making the leap, I feel progress is made towards it happening and she at least says she is willing to try it at right time.
Here is my dilemma. We have great sex although I would say she is low libido so we don't have it often. When we do have sex she will usually say something to the effect of it's so good why don't we do this more (she knows it's cause of her but more a heat of the moment comment). I can make my wife orgasm through penetration of oral pretty much 100% if the time. She strongly prefers orgasming via penetration. The issue is, she can't last more than 30seconds-2 minutes. I'm not sure if this is a function of us having infrequent sex, but I doubt it cause it's alwaya been that way. We usually do do quite a bit of foreplay in the beginning but if also made her cum from just kissing and foreplay. The couple times we used the dildo, she would have also orgasmed quickly if I didn't stop (she wanted to finish w real sex). Because she really loves penetration sex, Im fairly certain if bbc is comfortable she will orgasm within the first 15-30 seconds. The issue is she's usually done after this. She becomes very sensitive in that area and if we were to go for a round 2, we would need to wait at least 10 minutes. This is usually me asking for a round 2 btw, never her...I have to really get her going again for her to get aroused a second time. So from a practical standpoint, I'm not sure how this would work with a bbc bull if she's just gonna be done so quick. It might be something over in 30 seconds.
Any advice or someone with experience with a similar wife and how it ended up turning out?
Off-topic question.
Is this the best site to find premium BBC defined as
1) bbc
2) fit
3) polite/respectful
4) clean
Etc etc
My wife is in her early 40s. Extremely pretty and she is fit. For body type, think serenity cox (ie sexy but not curvy).So my standards for her are high.
I'm also considered generally pretty attractive.
Thanks in advance.
Background:
Introduced my wife to my bbc cuckold fantasy around 6 months ago. At first she was taken back/surprised like most couples, but has since come around after discussing more and watching IR porn and photos together. My wife is shy/timid and never really initiates this fantasy role play but it has gotten her pretty horny when we exchange dirty texts and she is at least to a point where she is curious and says if she's gonna be with another guy, he better be big. We have gotten a bbc dildo although it's more long than girthy (she was afraid of anything too big to start). It's probably 5 or so inch girth. She does enjoy the dildo. I'm average size (~6 inches, 4+ in girth).
We've been together for 20+years and have a really strong relationship and have been each other's only partners. We have 2 ******* that are middle aged so life is busy.
Although she is probably 6-12 months away from making the leap, I feel progress is made towards it happening and she at least says she is willing to try it at right time.
Here is my dilemma. We have great sex although I would say she is low libido so we don't have it often. When we do have sex she will usually say something to the effect of it's so good why don't we do this more (she knows it's cause of her but more a heat of the moment comment). I can make my wife orgasm through penetration of oral pretty much 100% if the time. She strongly prefers orgasming via penetration. The issue is, she can't last more than 30seconds-2 minutes. I'm not sure if this is a function of us having infrequent sex, but I doubt it cause it's alwaya been that way. We usually do do quite a bit of foreplay in the beginning but if also made her cum from just kissing and foreplay. The couple times we used the dildo, she would have also orgasmed quickly if I didn't stop (she wanted to finish w real sex). Because she really loves penetration sex, Im fairly certain if bbc is comfortable she will orgasm within the first 15-30 seconds. The issue is she's usually done after this. She becomes very sensitive in that area and if we were to go for a round 2, we would need to wait at least 10 minutes. This is usually me asking for a round 2 btw, never her...I have to really get her going again for her to get aroused a second time. So from a practical standpoint, I'm not sure how this would work with a bbc bull if she's just gonna be done so quick. It might be something over in 30 seconds.
Any advice or someone with experience with a similar wife and how it ended up turning out?
Off-topic question.
Is this the best site to find premium BBC defined as
1) bbc
2) fit
3) polite/respectful
4) clean
Etc etc
My wife is in her early 40s. Extremely pretty and she is fit. For body type, think serenity cox (ie sexy but not curvy).So my standards for her are high.
I'm also considered generally pretty attractive.
Thanks in advance.
