When the fling becomes more serious

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My wife has had sex with many men over the years, before and during our marriage, But they were casual encouters and/or one night stands. She likes sexual pleasure and not to demean my wife, but she is an easy lay. I had to accept that in order to be married to her. Once it was determined that our trying to have a baby was a failure because of my unknown infertility, we agree to turn to another man to impregnant her. Even that encounter which did result in a pregnancy did not lead to anything serious with the sperm donor.
But I have discovered that her younger co-worker, who loves to milk my wife's tits since giving birth, is becoming a more serious thing. I guess the old saying of why buy the cow when you get the milk for free, which in this case is also literally, is true. My wife and her co-worker have become lovers. Their encounters are almost daily it seems, which I guess when you work together, would be expected. Lots of opportunities and I am sure the sexual tension is extreme.

My wife has admitted to me that she feels something for him (she will not say it is love) and that she suspects he may be falling in love with her. She has assured me that I am her one true love, her life partner, her best friend and that she would never leave me. But when I suggested that maybe she should stop having sex with him, not to lead him on, she said she does not want to give up the sex with him. (Whether I am wimp or not, I did not tell her how that made me feel so inadequate.)

I guess I really should not be surprised. Sex is both physical and emotional. And the more you have it with someone the more connected you become.

So I have to acknowledge that he is her lover. And I have been complacent. I did not stop him from fucknig my wife here in our home, in our marital bed, whether I was home or not. Funny at first, he did not want to fuck my wife anywhere near me, doing it at his place, but now he just comes over, says hi to me and they proceed to the bedroom to fuck. He even struts around naked in front of me afterward to get a beer or hit the head.

We have always talked about having a couple of kids, so I suspect he may end up being sperm donor number 2 when the time is right. For now, my wife and I are enjoying our baby with no immediate plans for a number two, but I know it is somewhere in the future.

With the first sperm donor, he was a casual fuck. A guy who agreed to do more than just fuck my wife, but to impregnant her. He said he had not desire to be part of the baby's life and to date he has been out of the picture. If my wife does end up fucking and getting pregnant by her co-worker, who apparently has feelings for my wife, I think the dynamics could be different. That is going to have to be a serious conversation before any decision is made.
 
My wife has had sex with many men over the years, before and during our marriage, But they were casual encouters and/or one night stands. She likes sexual pleasure and not to demean my wife, but she is an easy lay. I had to accept that in order to be married to her. Once it was determined that our trying to have a baby was a failure because of my unknown infertility, we agree to turn to another man to impregnant her. Even that encounter which did result in a pregnancy did not lead to anything serious with the sperm donor.
But I have discovered that her younger co-worker, who loves to milk my wife's tits since giving birth, is becoming a more serious thing. I guess the old saying of why buy the cow when you get the milk for free, which in this case is also literally, is true. My wife and her co-worker have become lovers. Their encounters are almost daily it seems, which I guess when you work together, would be expected. Lots of opportunities and I am sure the sexual tension is extreme.

My wife has admitted to me that she feels something for him (she will not say it is love) and that she suspects he may be falling in love with her. She has assured me that I am her one true love, her life partner, her best friend and that she would never leave me. But when I suggested that maybe she should stop having sex with him, not to lead him on, she said she does not want to give up the sex with him. (Whether I am wimp or not, I did not tell her how that made me feel so inadequate.)

I guess I really should not be surprised. Sex is both physical and emotional. And the more you have it with someone the more connected you become.

So I have to acknowledge that he is her lover. And I have been complacent. I did not stop him from fucknig my wife here in our home, in our marital bed, whether I was home or not. Funny at first, he did not want to fuck my wife anywhere near me, doing it at his place, but now he just comes over, says hi to me and they proceed to the bedroom to fuck. He even struts around naked in front of me afterward to get a beer or hit the head.

We have always talked about having a couple of kids, so I suspect he may end up being sperm donor number 2 when the time is right. For now, my wife and I are enjoying our baby with no immediate plans for a number two, but I know it is somewhere in the future.

With the first sperm donor, he was a casual fuck. A guy who agreed to do more than just fuck my wife, but to impregnant her. He said he had not desire to be part of the baby's life and to date he has been out of the picture. If my wife does end up fucking and getting pregnant by her co-worker, who apparently has feelings for my wife, I think the dynamics could be different. That is going to have to be a serious conversation before any decision is made.

It may sound harsh but just enjoy seeing your wife with this man that uses her. She will always remain with you because you aren’t possessive or object to her getting what she wants from other men. Most of these other guys will not let her do this and bulls will be too much in demand to give your wife the attention or time she needs with him.

Those other guys may just be using your wife in ways their own wives aren’t willing to do. They don’t stay around long enough.

Here is a pic my wife being seeded and used by her married lover. Although he would fill my wife’s unprotected womb 3 to 4 times a month, for almost a year, he could rarely spend nights with my wife as she wanted to since he had his own wife and family to return to the next day. He owned my wife for the better part of a year before he had to move away for out of state work.


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It may sound harsh but just enjoy seeing your wife with this man that uses her. She will always remain with you because you aren’t possessive or object to her getting what she wants from other men. Most of these other guys will not let her do this and bulls will be too much in demand to give your wife the attention or time she needs with him.

Those other guys may just be using your wife in ways their own wives aren’t willing to do. They don’t stay around long enough.

Here is a pic my wife being seeded and used by her married lover. Although he would fill my wife’s unprotected womb 3 to 4 times a month, for almost a year, he could rarely spend nights with my wife as she wanted to since he had his own wife and family to return to the next day. He owned my wife for the better part of a year before he had to move away for out of state work.


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Thanks for your reply. What you say is so true and I am constantly trying to push my male ego aside to be happy my wife is getting what she needs from her co-worker. I have to admit he is a hot lover, very attentive to my wife, making sure the sex is about both of them. Someone raised a very considerate young man.
Thanks for sharing those hot pics. Did he succeed in knocking up your wife?
You are correct that the married men who fuck our wives cannot give them the true intimacy they crave, as they still need to go back to their wives and family.
 
Thanks for your reply. What you say is so true and I am constantly trying to push my male ego aside to be happy my wife is getting what she needs from her co-worker. I have to admit he is a hot lover, very attentive to my wife, making sure the sex is about both of them. Someone raised a very considerate young man.
Thanks for sharing those hot pics. Did he succeed in knocking up your wife?
You are correct that the married men who fuck our wives cannot give them the true intimacy they crave, as they still need to go back to their wives and family.

Yes, he bred my wife with a vengeance LOL.

I get to watch and take video and pics of their love making which is pretty hot to me. I also get to fuck my wife when he's done with her. Just look how happy she looks in this pic!
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Yes, he bred my wife with a vengeance LOL.

I get to watch and take video and pics of their love making which is pretty hot to me. I also get to fuck my wife when he's done with her. Just look how happy she looks in this pic!
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They say a happy wife gives a man a happy life. Did you enjoy watching her belly grow with his baby? She does look happy and he looks like a stud. Hot tits on her, must have been huge when she got pregnant
 
It may sound harsh but just enjoy seeing your wife with this man that uses her. She will always remain with you because you aren’t possessive or object to her getting what she wants from other men. Most of these other guys will not let her do this and bulls will be too much in demand to give your wife the attention or time she needs with him.

Those other guys may just be using your wife in ways their own wives aren’t willing to do. They don’t stay around long enough.

Here is a pic my wife being seeded and used by her married lover. Although he would fill my wife’s unprotected womb 3 to 4 times a month, for almost a year, he could rarely spend nights with my wife as she wanted to since he had his own wife and family to return to the next day. He owned my wife for the better part of a year before he had to move away for out of state work.


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Sound advice given by @FunTimesCpl
 
My wife has had sex with many men over the years, before and during our marriage, But they were casual encouters and/or one night stands. She likes sexual pleasure and not to demean my wife, but she is an easy lay. I had to accept that in order to be married to her. Once it was determined that our trying to have a baby was a failure because of my unknown infertility, we agree to turn to another man to impregnant her. Even that encounter which did result in a pregnancy did not lead to anything serious with the sperm donor.
But I have discovered that her younger co-worker, who loves to milk my wife's tits since giving birth, is becoming a more serious thing. I guess the old saying of why buy the cow when you get the milk for free, which in this case is also literally, is true. My wife and her co-worker have become lovers. Their encounters are almost daily it seems, which I guess when you work together, would be expected. Lots of opportunities and I am sure the sexual tension is extreme.

My wife has admitted to me that she feels something for him (she will not say it is love) and that she suspects he may be falling in love with her. She has assured me that I am her one true love, her life partner, her best friend and that she would never leave me. But when I suggested that maybe she should stop having sex with him, not to lead him on, she said she does not want to give up the sex with him. (Whether I am wimp or not, I did not tell her how that made me feel so inadequate.)

I guess I really should not be surprised. Sex is both physical and emotional. And the more you have it with someone the more connected you become.

So I have to acknowledge that he is her lover. And I have been complacent. I did not stop him from fucknig my wife here in our home, in our marital bed, whether I was home or not. Funny at first, he did not want to fuck my wife anywhere near me, doing it at his place, but now he just comes over, says hi to me and they proceed to the bedroom to fuck. He even struts around naked in front of me afterward to get a beer or hit the head.

We have always talked about having a couple of kids, so I suspect he may end up being sperm donor number 2 when the time is right. For now, my wife and I are enjoying our baby with no immediate plans for a number two, but I know it is somewhere in the future.

With the first sperm donor, he was a casual fuck. A guy who agreed to do more than just fuck my wife, but to impregnant her. He said he had not desire to be part of the baby's life and to date he has been out of the picture. If my wife does end up fucking and getting pregnant by her co-worker, who apparently has feelings for my wife, I think the dynamics could be different. That is going to have to be a serious conversation before any decision is made.
Its a tough spot when emotions/feelings are involved. I say that but I have allowed my wife to be in a relationship with a man for nearly a year. Its more than sex. It wasn't meant to be but it is. and I am partially if not solely to blame for that. I acted on a fantasy and revealed to my wife I wanted to watch her in a MFM, long story short that is how she met this guy and with my approval it has progressed. My wife like most wives was in a relationship with me and not having sex with strange men . Her entire life sex has been part of relationships. As things moved on she and he developed feelings which I was OK with as I knew the intimacy would align itself with that. They have travelled internationally together and been in a committed relationship where all his friends know her as his girlfriend. On the flip side we are married and nothing between us has changed so she has like a dual life which sometimes causes her to be conflicted.

As strange as it may sound she has been doing all this for me, at least up until a certain point, so I must be supportive of the situation. With that said things did get a bit odd before Thanksgiving of last year. He is a young single guy and my wife is his only relationship. He is a decent guy, good career and head on his shoulders, has no red flags and should really have a girlfriend his own age. If it were not for our marriage they would be living together by now. That caused some issues. He got a little too clingy and tried to really bring my wife full circle into his life by routing her out of state and introducing her to his parents. She was already not too far from there for work and he showed up to her conference trying to get her to spend Thanksgiving with his family. She has a family here and they would really wonder where the hell she was on Thanksgiving if she were not home.

My wife and I had a serious discussion about this. She was upset but didn't want to just end things so we decided to have a talk with him and to slow things down a bit and be less available. Since this time my wife and I are spending a lot more time together as she was used to being constantly with one of us and never alone. It has me pretty busy as she is with me almost around the clock whereas I used to have entire weekends to myself.

It is a very difficult situation to navigate when emotions are involved but in my wife's defense she isn't a slut just running around having sex with every guy she sees, she does relationship sex like most people do. She just did it outside of marriage and it got a bit carried away. I don't know if we can continue this or if it has fizzled. I do not know if there is a way way back to good but not too clingy status. She has gotten together with him a couple times since but way way less, only one overnight and no long weekends.
 
My wife has had sex with many men over the years, before and during our marriage, But they were casual encouters and/or one night stands. She likes sexual pleasure and not to demean my wife, but she is an easy lay. I had to accept that in order to be married to her. Once it was determined that our trying to have a baby was a failure because of my unknown infertility, we agree to turn to another man to impregnant her. Even that encounter which did result in a pregnancy did not lead to anything serious with the sperm donor.
But I have discovered that her younger co-worker, who loves to milk my wife's tits since giving birth, is becoming a more serious thing. I guess the old saying of why buy the cow when you get the milk for free, which in this case is also literally, is true. My wife and her co-worker have become lovers. Their encounters are almost daily it seems, which I guess when you work together, would be expected. Lots of opportunities and I am sure the sexual tension is extreme.

My wife has admitted to me that she feels something for him (she will not say it is love) and that she suspects he may be falling in love with her. She has assured me that I am her one true love, her life partner, her best friend and that she would never leave me. But when I suggested that maybe she should stop having sex with him, not to lead him on, she said she does not want to give up the sex with him. (Whether I am wimp or not, I did not tell her how that made me feel so inadequate.)

I guess I really should not be surprised. Sex is both physical and emotional. And the more you have it with someone the more connected you become.

So I have to acknowledge that he is her lover. And I have been complacent. I did not stop him from fucknig my wife here in our home, in our marital bed, whether I was home or not. Funny at first, he did not want to fuck my wife anywhere near me, doing it at his place, but now he just comes over, says hi to me and they proceed to the bedroom to fuck. He even struts around naked in front of me afterward to get a beer or hit the head.

We have always talked about having a couple of kids, so I suspect he may end up being sperm donor number 2 when the time is right. For now, my wife and I are enjoying our baby with no immediate plans for a number two, but I know it is somewhere in the future.

With the first sperm donor, he was a casual fuck. A guy who agreed to do more than just fuck my wife, but to impregnant her. He said he had not desire to be part of the baby's life and to date he has been out of the picture. If my wife does end up fucking and getting pregnant by her co-worker, who apparently has feelings for my wife, I think the dynamics could be different. That is going to have to be a serious conversation before any decision is made.

My wife has had sex with many men over the years, before and during our marriage, But they were casual encouters and/or one night stands. She likes sexual pleasure and not to demean my wife, but she is an easy lay. I had to accept that in order to be married to her. Once it was determined that our trying to have a baby was a failure because of my unknown infertility, we agree to turn to another man to impregnant her. Even that encounter which did result in a pregnancy did not lead to anything serious with the sperm donor.
But I have discovered that her younger co-worker, who loves to milk my wife's tits since giving birth, is becoming a more serious thing. I guess the old saying of why buy the cow when you get the milk for free, which in this case is also literally, is true. My wife and her co-worker have become lovers. Their encounters are almost daily it seems, which I guess when you work together, would be expected. Lots of opportunities and I am sure the sexual tension is extreme.

My wife has admitted to me that she feels something for him (she will not say it is love) and that she suspects he may be falling in love with her. She has assured me that I am her one true love, her life partner, her best friend and that she would never leave me. But when I suggested that maybe she should stop having sex with him, not to lead him on, she said she does not want to give up the sex with him. (Whether I am wimp or not, I did not tell her how that made me feel so inadequate.)

I guess I really should not be surprised. Sex is both physical and emotional. And the more you have it with someone the more connected you become.

So I have to acknowledge that he is her lover. And I have been complacent. I did not stop him from fucknig my wife here in our home, in our marital bed, whether I was home or not. Funny at first, he did not want to fuck my wife anywhere near me, doing it at his place, but now he just comes over, says hi to me and they proceed to the bedroom to fuck. He even struts around naked in front of me afterward to get a beer or hit the head.

We have always talked about having a couple of kids, so I suspect he may end up being sperm donor number 2 when the time is right. For now, my wife and I are enjoying our baby with no immediate plans for a number two, but I know it is somewhere in the future.

With the first sperm donor, he was a casual fuck. A guy who agreed to do more than just fuck my wife, but to impregnant her. He said he had not desire to be part of the baby's life and to date he has been out of the picture. If my wife does end up fucking and getting pregnant by her co-worker, who apparently has feelings for my wife, I think the dynamics could be different. That is going to have to be a serious conversation before any decision is made.
My wife has had sex with many men over the years, before and during our marriage, But they were casual encouters and/or one night stands. She likes sexual pleasure and not to demean my wife, but she is an easy lay. I had to accept that in order to be married to her. Once it was determined that our trying to have a baby was a failure because of my unknown infertility, we agree to turn to another man to impregnant her. Even that encounter which did result in a pregnancy did not lead to anything serious with the sperm donor.
But I have discovered that her younger co-worker, who loves to milk my wife's tits since giving birth, is becoming a more serious thing. I guess the old saying of why buy the cow when you get the milk for free, which in this case is also literally, is true. My wife and her co-worker have become lovers. Their encounters are almost daily it seems, which I guess when you work together, would be expected. Lots of opportunities and I am sure the sexual tension is extreme.

My wife has admitted to me that she feels something for him (she will not say it is love) and that she suspects he may be falling in love with her. She has assured me that I am her one true love, her life partner, her best friend and that she would never leave me. But when I suggested that maybe she should stop having sex with him, not to lead him on, she said she does not want to give up the sex with him. (Whether I am wimp or not, I did not tell her how that made me feel so inadequate.)

I guess I really should not be surprised. Sex is both physical and emotional. And the more you have it with someone the more connected you become.

So I have to acknowledge that he is her lover. And I have been complacent. I did not stop him from fucknig my wife here in our home, in our marital bed, whether I was home or not. Funny at first, he did not want to fuck my wife anywhere near me, doing it at his place, but now he just comes over, says hi to me and they proceed to the bedroom to fuck. He even struts around naked in front of me afterward to get a beer or hit the head.

We have always talked about having a couple of kids, so I suspect he may end up being sperm donor number 2 when the time is right. For now, my wife and I are enjoying our baby with no immediate plans for a number two, but I know it is somewhere in the future.

With the first sperm donor, he was a casual fuck. A guy who agreed to do more than just fuck my wife, but to impregnant her. He said he had not desire to be part of the baby's life and to date he has been out of the picture. If my wife does end up fucking and getting pregnant by her co-worker, who apparently has feelings for my wife, I think the dynamics could be different. That is going to have to be a serious conversation before any decision is made.
When my ex wife Linda was 33, and me 36, we found a young man for her for similar reasons you and your wife were looking and frankly, we just wanted more sex for Linda. She wanted a fertile hard body young man who could join us on short notice, and we found one fairly quickly from an ad were were running in a swingers publication. We met him for drinks in a bar one evening and he was just great personality wise, and buff like my wife wanted (her thing was running her hands over a hard and well-muscled male body) so we soon arranged a threesome at a local hotel. He was making good money as an apprentice engineer and was well educated, but still 24 and sometimes viewed things from a very inexperienced perspective. He was single (or so he told us) which we thought would be great but he was uncomfortable joining a married couple - i.e. with me present. The first night in the hotel he couldn't get it up with me there, - my wife Linda recognized the issue right away and sent me for "refreshments." Naturally, I took a lot of time getting the snacks and booze and by the time I returned they were already in their afterglow. The sex was just excellent, she said.

Over time, he had a lot of difficulty managing his own time, and couldn't seem to keep longer term dates we set up to accommodate Linda's work schedule despite Linda making it clear she was really up for more sex with him. We were only able to link up with him a couple more times, then he found a girlfriend and couldn't be bothered. That did not go over well with Linda and was my first exposure to the emotional side of things with my wife.

Linda was somewhat infatuated with him (NRE sort of thing) but it didn't matter once he found a girlfriend, - he made himself unavailable. I've often thought he was married and just didn't tell us, or his new girlfriend found out about Linda and gave him an ultimatum, or he was afraid Linda would get pregnant. We never said anything to him about that but we never asked him to use a condom, either.

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We have always talked about having a couple of kids, so I suspect he may end up being sperm donor number 2 when the time is right. For now, my wife and I are enjoying our baby with no immediate plans for a number two, but I know it is somewhere in the future.
 
Yes, he bred my wife with a vengeance LOL.

I get to watch and take video and pics of their love making which is pretty hot to me. I also get to fuck my wife when he's done with her. Just look how happy she looks in this pic!
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Wow you are a lucky man. She looks like she’s having the time of her life. Great hubby right there
 
That gif is so hot. He’s really digging into her. She’s beautiful too, my wife is thicc too. I love it

I really appreciate the response, it helps. I think I was under the assumptions cucks didn’t feel that jealousy.

The idea of letting another man fuck my sweet beautiful wife is hot to me but also fills me with angst and jealousy
 
That gif is so hot. He’s really digging into her. She’s beautiful too, my wife is thicc too. I love it

I really appreciate the response, it helps. I think I was under the assumptions cucks didn’t feel that jealousy.

The idea of letting another man fuck my sweet beautiful wife is hot to me but also fills me with angst and jealousy

Yes indeed the mix of angst and jealousy is so powerfully exciting for me. I never thought I would enjoy seeing my wife let herself be used like that but it makes it so much hotter to know she's letting this married man seed her.

She didn't mind even knowing that he was married beforehand. She just wanted him to use her to take do with her as he pleased.

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My wife told me she wants the full experience, no protection or pulling out.

I can’t imagine , I’m working to get over my jealousy to allow it. I’m sure it will sting but also be incredibly hot

Do you ever use toys in the bedroom? Start with toys you both use and move to ones she uses. Maybe start there and let her spend ample time pleasuring herself with toys while you watch.
 
Yes indeed the mix of angst and jealousy is so powerfully exciting for me. I never thought I would enjoy seeing my wife let herself be used like that but it makes it so much hotter to know she's letting this married man seed her.

She didn't mind even knowing that he was married beforehand. She just wanted him to use her to take do with her as he pleased.

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I think most guys have no idea how hot it is to see their wives ravished by another man. Their egos and jealousy stand in the way. I like to see my wife happy, to enjoy the pleasure of another man. I want her to want him. But to be honest, that male ego does get in the way and even though I want this for my wife, I do get jealous. It is only natural. But I let it go, focusing on the sex, like watching porn. And as fucked up as this may sound, seeing a guy enjoying my wife, wanting her, finding her sexy and hot, makes me proud that she chose me as her husband. That I won the prize, the whole package. They get her body, but I get her.
 
I think most guys have no idea how hot it is to see their wives ravished by another man. Their egos and jealousy stand in the way. I like to see my wife happy, to enjoy the pleasure of another man. I want her to want him. But to be honest, that male ego does get in the way and even though I want this for my wife, I do get jealous. It is only natural. But I let it go, focusing on the sex, like watching porn. And as fucked up as this may sound, seeing a guy enjoying my wife, wanting her, finding her sexy and hot, makes me proud that she chose me as her husband. That I won the prize, the whole package. They get her body, but I get her.
I aspire to be more like you
 
My wife fucks whoever she wants whenever she feels like it, it's been like that since before we met and after we got married, the big difference is my wife has no emotional attachment to the guys she fucks and only fucks them once, for my wife it's just sex.
 
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