After a long time talking my wife into getting a lover, just over a year ago she had her first experience. We have gone slow, always with the same guy, and over time she has got to really enjoy his visits, wanting to meet more often and letting him go bare inside her. Ive let her drive the relationship with him not providing any limits. When chatting about his visits, she says how good he feels and how amazing their sex feels. I love that she is enjoying their time together but im surprised how much she enjoys and craves it. Any others have the same experience where she enjoys it more than expected?
Wife enjoys her lover more than expected
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Women are amazing in their capacity to enjoy sex, that's for sure. Early in our marriage when she was having sex with a BF (I knew him and eocouraged) she was really enjoying it, but distance and the calendar limited their trysts to every three weeks or so - she was frustrated by that. The fantasy is so much different than the reality in that we have jobs, families and other stuff and all of a sudden we need to create time for the wife to be with a BF. That means hubby will have to pick up the slack in order to make it all happen for his wife. It really forces hubby to "walk the talk." That's how we rolled, anyway and it was very satisfying for the three of us.
I've put in bold how it's been for us. We do this with the same guy. We started out slow and worked up to getting comfy with this.
We are pretty conservative, wife especially so. It's not cuckold for us, we both have sex with her, always all three of us together, they never get together without me.
Wife won't really talk about it with me, she says sex with him is different not better.
WHILE he's with us it's VERY obvious she likes the sex they have. She's constantly saying how good it feels when he's doing her. She moans a LOT with her eyes closed. We take turns doing her and it's a way different view watching but the way she moves with him tells me she loves it.
I get jealous feelings seeing how turned on she gets with him but it's all good.
We don't use rubbers when he's with us, we both usually cum inside her. We don't play with the sperm, she wipes off between rounds(usually) but the mess is part of the sexy fun.
After he's been with us she's horny as fuck for days after so we have a lot of very good sex.
We aren't swingers, none of our friends know we do anything like this.
Our fun with him has improved our sex life like crazy.
I knew Sonja wanted a more manly lover and influence as I also lusted and leaked about her smitten desire for her boytoy next door; the negative is the times she compares his attributes to my deficiencies, the positive is when she realizes I have accepted their relationship and she now extols my virtues
My wife has a boyfriend she’s been seeing now for about 2 years. We sometimes see him together other times she spends time on her own with him. It has been a great experience, she loves their sex life. They both now know each other’s body’s and sexual turn on’s so much now, it didn’t take too long before they started having sex unprotected, which was a game changer! I love watching them together they as they are so into each other, it’s very intense! He can make her cum so many times during the night. This is something that doesn’t happen a lot for her with one night stands, she enjoys the sex but they very rarely make her cum. They definitely has some feeling for each other, something that I never even thought about before we started opening up our relationship, and the first time I watched them make love, not fucking, was a bit had for me, but so much of a turn on. We talked a lot after that night about their relationship and how she had been getting feelings for him for a while. She made me feel that’s It’s not something that threatens me or our relationships we talk all the time about everything and I’m more glad for her than anything else. She is a very passionate person and she is more than capable of having feelings for someone else without it affecting us. I would trust her with my life and I feel so comfortable in our marriage. I know it’s not for everyone but it works so very well for us and we are closer than ever since we opened up our relationship because we are more open about every aspect of our life not just our sex life.
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Great to hear your experiences. We have been the same, struggling to find the time, but she has been great at making time to meet with her lover.
Its great to hear your experience, it sounds like its working very well for you all. Ive been encouraging her to meet him often and told her it fine for her to enjoy it and having feelings for him is ok and expected. I want her to have feelings for him and to build a relationship with him. Hearing your experience suggests im on the right track. Thanks again
My wife said he was the best fuck she ever had
My wife’s last boyfriend was one who she truly loved his cock. I never seen her as happy and thrilled. They were to for almost 2 years and all I can say is I did so much jacking off.
She did many getaways too
And swapped with another couple.
She did many getaways too
And swapped with another couple.
Ohiocuckcouple
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When we first started this lifestyle, it was my hubbies idea and it took him over a year to finally convince me to try it. I told him to understand I was only doing it for him. And that was a true statement. He would find guys on AFF that he knew I would like and start a conversation with them. If it seemed liked it would work out we would set up a meeting place and take it from there.
Later down the road, I myself started to get on the AFF site and find the men myself. Some I would meet with my hubby. And some I would meet with alone and would be bringing them to my house to fuck while my hubby was working. He was a truck driver at the time and could be away for a couple of weeks.
It was then that I came to the realization that I was no longer doing this just for my hubby. I was doing it for myself. I was fucking other men and I was loving it. I quickly built up a small group of men that would stop over for when ever I or them, needed a good fuck. For quite a while, I COULDNT GET ENOUGH! The sex was just sooo much better with these men than it was with my hubby that I couldn't stop. And yes hubby knew about them. He just didn't always get to meet them or watch.
Later down the road, I myself started to get on the AFF site and find the men myself. Some I would meet with my hubby. And some I would meet with alone and would be bringing them to my house to fuck while my hubby was working. He was a truck driver at the time and could be away for a couple of weeks.
It was then that I came to the realization that I was no longer doing this just for my hubby. I was doing it for myself. I was fucking other men and I was loving it. I quickly built up a small group of men that would stop over for when ever I or them, needed a good fuck. For quite a while, I COULDNT GET ENOUGH! The sex was just sooo much better with these men than it was with my hubby that I couldn't stop. And yes hubby knew about them. He just didn't always get to meet them or watch.
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You sound a lot like my wife and your husband sounds a lot like me.
I want my wife to have sex with whoever she wants, whenever she wants and as much as she wants. I've never chosen her men. I want her to choose her own men.
I'm and airline pilot (retired military pilot) so I can be gone for long periods of time, as well. But, her bf's have always been welcome to come over to our house whether I was home or not.
Almost all of our experience was with the three longer-term lovers my wife had between the time we married and the time we retired 5 years ago. She was not having sex with all three of them during the same time windows, but the affairs did overlap as one ended (always by mutual agreement that it was time to move on) and another began. Having these men in our marital bed with her from time to time was the norm. Sometimes I was there, sometimes not. It was always hot. She and I were discussing what she liked most about her current BF after he left one night and she candidly told me that he "just feels better inside me than you do." She assured me she loved me and in a way I was turned on by this revelation. I don't think my wife meant this as an intentional humiliation - she was just saying it like it was. There was no talk of "cuckolding, sub, humiliation," etc. Her lover was her primary sex partner and all three of us loved it.
99% of the guys here expereince this. They THINK they are getting involved either to be able to get more pussy themselves by allowing their wife to have other guys, or they honestly believe they can find cocks to suck by offering up their wifes pussy!!!
Some honestly want to see their wife with another guy, but think that they have an on/off switch so that when their little peepee's squirt or dribble, they hit the off button and it's over.........LOLLOLLOL!!!
Women don't work this way guys, and they can go a LOT longer than we can sexually, especially with a willing and able partner. BIG problems ahead when you think you can control her response to this lifestyle!!
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