Wife gave a go and started looking for her first bull - so excited

[drakebelg]

So after having our first serious conversation about this a full year ago and probably about 20 talks during the year my wife f54 said yesterday she definetly wants to start searching for a bull.

She told me she has started checking out men from our dayto day life in a sexual way and it turns her on. I explained that this is a good example of how just telling me this turns me on. I also told her that she clearly flirted with our bank manager and I loved it. She said she found him hot. HMMM..... I love that she is doing this also when I am there.

• She will do the searching for a bull online and keep her eyes open in her day to day life. My involvment will be just helping with app accounts setup etc..
• She will talk about it with a female friend who is single but is sexually active via online dating with multiple FWB's.
• For the first date she would like to meet him for a coffee or a drink with me nearby.
• For a second date I will drop her off and wait nearby in the car or bar for a few hours.
• She will use a condom but let him cum on her body so I can can wash her off.
• We agreed that she needs to give me some information on how it went and how it felt.
• We will have sex afterwards.
• Maybe down the road she might ask me to watch.

This morning she told me to massage her and then fuck her with a big cock sleeve to 2 intense orgasms. I was then allowed to cum in her (15 seconds later lol).
She then told me that she made a tinder account last night, just after our talk and is checking out SDC as another option.

It's very hot that she's getting so comfortable with the idea. A year ago she was pissed with me when I first suggested it. But now she calmly says things like:
-yeah of course I'm going to find some guys to fuck me,
-lol, if my family knew that I was on tinder when they were messaging me,
-yeah, I'm just going to have a casual talk with my girlfriend (that i often see) about fucking other guys.......
-he must use a condom but you won't be able to clean the creampie. Do you mind? Hmm, he can just cum on my body.

 

[Ht805cpl]

So after having our first serious conversation about this a full year ago and probably about 20 talks during the year my wife f54 said yesterday she definetly wants to start searching for a bull.

She told me she has started checking out men from our dayto day life in a sexual way and it turns her on. I explained that this is a good example of how just telling me this turns me on. I also told her that she clearly flirted with our bank manager and I loved it. She said she found him hot. HMMM..... I love that she is doing this also when I am there.

• She will do the searching for a bull online and keep her eyes open in her day to day life. My involvment will be just helping with app accounts setup etc..
• She will talk about it with a female friend who is single but is sexually active via online dating with multiple FWB's.
• For the first date she would like to meet him for a coffee or a drink with me nearby.
• For a second date I will drop her off and wait nearby in the car or bar for a few hours.
• She will use a condom but let him cum on her body so I can can wash her off.
• We agreed that she needs to give me some information on how it went and how it felt.
• We will have sex afterwards.
• Maybe down the road she might ask me to watch.

This morning she told me to massage her and then fuck her with a big cock sleeve to 2 intense orgasms. I was then allowed to cum in her (15 seconds later lol).
She then told me that she made a tinder account last night, just after our talk and is checking out SDC as another option.

It's very hot that she's getting so comfortable with the idea. A year ago she was pissed with me when I first suggested it. But now she calmly says things like:
-yeah of course I'm going to find some guys to fuck me,
-lol, if my family knew that I was on tinder when they were messaging me,
-yeah, I'm just going to have a casual talk with my girlfriend (that i often see) about fucking other guys.......
-he must use a condom but you won't be able to clean the creampie. Do you mind? Hmm, he can just cum on my body.

I hope you are ready for an experience that is going to change both of your lives. Just know once you open the door there may be no turning back, she may come to enjoy other men so much you may become secondary to her sexually! Good luck and know it is a different world you are about to enter!

 

[drakebelg]

Thanks, I am aware of the points you make. I am also aware that actually living it will be very different to the fantasy with ups and downs and many challenges.

In the last year we have experimented with chastity, orgasm denial (45days) and FLR, while contemplating going to a cuckold relationship. We've settled in a natural way for a soft and not strict FLR.

She is in general the boss and especially about sex. She gets plenty of foot massages and I am not allowed to initiate sex. What we do during that session is totally up to her. For example yesterday she said she wanted a foot rub, back massage and then sex with a big vibrating strapon.

 

[sexyhotwife52]

So after having our first serious conversation about this a full year ago and probably about 20 talks during the year my wife f54 said yesterday she definetly wants to start searching for a bull.

She told me she has started checking out men from our dayto day life in a sexual way and it turns her on. I explained that this is a good example of how just telling me this turns me on. I also told her that she clearly flirted with our bank manager and I loved it. She said she found him hot. HMMM..... I love that she is doing this also when I am there.

• She will do the searching for a bull online and keep her eyes open in her day to day life. My involvment will be just helping with app accounts setup etc..
• She will talk about it with a female friend who is single but is sexually active via online dating with multiple FWB's.
• For the first date she would like to meet him for a coffee or a drink with me nearby.
• For a second date I will drop her off and wait nearby in the car or bar for a few hours.
• She will use a condom but let him cum on her body so I can can wash her off.
• We agreed that she needs to give me some information on how it went and how it felt.
• We will have sex afterwards.
• Maybe down the road she might ask me to watch.

This morning she told me to massage her and then fuck her with a big cock sleeve to 2 intense orgasms. I was then allowed to cum in her (15 seconds later lol).
She then told me that she made a tinder account last night, just after our talk and is checking out SDC as another option.

It's very hot that she's getting so comfortable with the idea. A year ago she was pissed with me when I first suggested it. But now she calmly says things like:
-yeah of course I'm going to find some guys to fuck me,
-lol, if my family knew that I was on tinder when they were messaging me,
-yeah, I'm just going to have a casual talk with my girlfriend (that i often see) about fucking other guys.......
-he must use a condom but you won't be able to clean the creampie. Do you mind? Hmm, he can just cum on my body.

Hmmm; sounds a lot like my wife and I. Though she brought up being with another guy a few years ago. she asked if that was a fantasy of mine. So in a year we’ve only talked about her having boyfriends and did the usual incorporating it into our sex life. Now she has a gym trainer and another guy at the gym she texts back and forth with. He is a tall fit black guy maybe 30 years old (she’s 54 and looks 40s if that. This week she had me buy her 3 pieces of lingerie because she’s self conscious about her abdominal scars. I think one day i’m going to come home and she will tell me she fucked her boyfriend while I was at work or something. I hope i’m ready; It’s definitely something your ego runs from… don’t let this guy fuck your wife! Anyway how that I know she wants another dick i’ve decided to let her be free sexually. She’s had alot of sexual experiences prior to meeting me at 41 so this may have always been in store for her. We have always had a great sex life yet since considering this hotwife lifestyle there are times I can honestly say was the most passionate sex i’ve ever had. I just keep telling myself it’s strictly physical for them to have sex, she will gain self confidence and her and I will grow closer together. Plus it’s fun when she acts so shocked that I am okay with her fuckin some guy with a big dick

 

[Ht805cpl]

Hmmm; sounds a lot like my wife and I. Though she brought up being with another guy a few years ago. she asked if that was a fantasy of mine. So in a year we’ve only talked about her having boyfriends and did the usual incorporating it into our sex life. Now she has a gym trainer and another guy at the gym she texts back and forth with. He is a tall fit black guy maybe 30 years old (she’s 54 and looks 40s if that. This week she had me buy her 3 pieces of lingerie because she’s self conscious about her abdominal scars. I think one day i’m going to come home and she will tell me she fucked her boyfriend while I was at work or something. I hope i’m ready; It’s definitely something your ego runs from… don’t let this guy fuck your wife! Anyway how that I know she wants another dick i’ve decided to let her be free sexually. She’s had alot of sexual experiences prior to meeting me at 41 so this may have always been in store for her. We have always had a great sex life yet since considering this hotwife lifestyle there are times I can honestly say was the most passionate sex i’ve ever had. I just keep telling myself it’s strictly physical for them to have sex, she will gain self confidence and her and I will grow closer together. Plus it’s fun when she acts so shocked that I am okay with her fuckin some guy with a big dick

As long as she or both of you can separate sex and love it can work, the problems arise when she gets attached to someone or starts to have feelings for him, rather than just having sex and loving you! It can work, it has for us, we are not in a cuckold relationship but we both have sex with others together and alone! Truly hope you two fork it all out, nothing hotter than watching her make love to another man knowing she is mine and when they are finished I get to be last and enjoy her for my wife!

 

[drakebelg]

As long as she or both of you can separate sex and love it can work, the problems arise when she gets attached to someone or starts to have feelings for him, rather than just having sex and loving you! It can work, it has for us, we are not in a cuckold relationship but we both have sex with others together and alone! Truly hope you two fork it all out, nothing hotter than watching her make love to another man knowing she is mine and when they are finished I get to be last and enjoy her for my wife!

Yes, we have talked about staying alert to any feelings stuff and ways to reduce the risk. Fixed boyfriends or poly is not what we are looking for.

 

[sexyhotwife52]

As long as she or both of you can separate sex and love it can work, the problems arise when she gets attached to someone or starts to have feelings for him, rather than just having sex and loving you! It can work, it has for us, we are not in a cuckold relationship but we both have sex with others together and alone! Truly hope you two fork it all out, nothing hotter than watching her make love to another man knowing she is mine and when they are finished I get to be last and enjoy her for my wife!

thankfully she has worked as high priced ...... in the past for a select few different men; so she has always said she can separate sex into its own entity

 

[CONST65]

Thanks, I am aware of the points you make. I am also aware that actually living it will be very different to the fantasy with ups and downs and many challenges.

In the last year we have experimented with chastity, orgasm denial (45days) and FLR, while contemplating going to a cuckold relationship. We've settled in a natural way for a soft and not strict FLR.

She is in general the boss and especially about sex. She gets plenty of foot massages and I am not allowed to initiate sex. What we do during that session is totally up to her. For example yesterday she said she wanted a foot rub, back massage and then sex with a big vibrating strapon.

Its great that you have worked togerher to make this happen..it will.change yout lives fit the better he confidence and yours will increase your desire for each other will increase.The first time shr gets dressed up and.gets ready ti kesve and says dont wait.up. You.will.be so turned on waiting for her return.you will be so turned on waiting to reclaim her it will be frustrating anf exciting
.Yout lived will change for the bettet in so many ways. Feel free to ask.anything my wife has been a hotwife for 6 years you can contact me here or Dm. Bob

 

[drakebelg]

I'm happy to be able give a small but very positive update since september.

I'm being a patient hopeful subby cuck never pushing her on it. She really appreciates that.

She will talk about it with a female friend who is single but is very sexually active via online dating with multiple FWB's.
- She just had this talk today with her friend and she said it was good fun, she learned some new things and it's making her feel more comfortable.
- in Belgium her friend said that Tinder is horrible but bumble is pretty good.
- Her friend advised her to go to a swingers club in another province or just an hour away in the Netherlands or France. She is seriously considering this. WOW a few months ago this was a hard no.
- SDC is also a possibility.
- The friend suggest a trio with me but she is still not thinking that way. That's fine by me.
- The friend told her about an FWB that has a room full of sex toys, swings, ride on saddles and my wife was really interested.
- I find it a BIG turn on that a friend of my wife that i also see around knows i am a wishful cuck and didn't bat an eye at it. I'm curious how she will react to me the next time we see eachother.
- my wife realises she can have a happy typical loving family relationship but now also have what her hyper sexual single friend has.
- In december we will be going to a concert in another city and she wants to play single in a bar.

 

[Ht805cpl]

I'm happy to be able give a small but very positive update since september.

I'm being a patient hopeful subby cuck never pushing her on it. She really appreciates that.


You are opening a door you may not be able to close, I hope you enjoy the ride you are about to get on! We’re not a cuckold couple but I am so greatful to have a man who is willing to share me with other men n sometimes women, it has been a long wonderful experience for us both,

She will talk about it with a female friend who is single but is very sexually active via online dating with multiple FWB's.
- She just had this talk today with her friend and she said it was good fun, she learned some new things and it's making her feel more comfortable.
- in Belgium her friend said that Tinder is horrible but bumble is pretty good.
- Her friend advised her to go to a swingers club in another province or just an hour away in the Netherlands or France. She is seriously considering this. WOW a few months ago this was a hard no.
- SDC is also a possibility.
- The friend suggest a trio with me but she is still not thinking that way. That's fine by me.
- The friend told her about an FWB that has a room full of sex toys, swings, ride on saddles and my wife was really interested.
- I find it a BIG turn on that a friend of my wife that i also see around knows i am a wishful cuck and didn't bat an eye at it. I'm curious how she will react to me the next time we see eachother.
- my wife realises she can have a happy typical loving family relationship but now also have what her hyper sexual single friend has.
- In december we will be going to a concert in another city and she wants to play single in a bar.

 

[intoittoo]

That’s a great update! Thanks for sharing.

I hope you enjoy the ride. Mine is just starting things with her second “friend”. I never would of imagined we would be doing something like this.

 

[drakebelg]

OMG, it's even hotter than i thought.
She directly told her friend that one of the main reasons she wants to fuck other guys (and i want it too) is that i cum too fast and my wife would prefer longer sex sessions. OMG, this is so hot. We are going to a party next week with her friend.... Knowing her friend she will have a talk to me about it.

I am not at all embarassed, it's kind of confirming my submissive/humiliation kink.

 

[DesiTexas]

Thanks for sharing. Please keep us updated.

Regards.

 

[drakebelg]

Still looking carefully for her first bulls but will put her time fully into it from January 2nd after a family visit.

She's said a few times that it's a new year's resolution to make it happen and that she really wants it.

She is often referring to my severe PE in a very casual way, which is very sexy. She said with her lovers she might have to tell them to stop because she orgasms so easily and after about six is finished.

I'm back in full time chastity and she tells me when she wants piv quickies.

We just went sexy clothes shopping for her hopefully future dates. It's such a turn on frustrated and locked watching her trying on sexy clothes to impress other men.

She's got her hair done (spent more than ever) in a way that makes her look in her thirties.

She often gives me updates on her slutty bff bumble success.

She is fantasizing about mfm, dvp and even mmfm with BJ and dvp without me present. Kind of saying that would be amazing.

She said she has no more concerns about doing it or not, feeling it's right for her and us, fucking other men etc.... That's amazing. She even selected the photos for bumble that shows her face in incognito and also selected one revealing bikini photo.

Her remaining concern is making sure we do it in a safe way using sense, good selection, coffee dates.

I love how practical it's getting and kind of matter of fact, that it will happen. It's now almost totally normalised for her.

 

[drakebelg]

My hotwife to be is wondering if she should buy this blouse for her first dates?

 

[CONST65]

My hotwife to be is wondering if she should buy this blouse for her first dates?

Yes and even.more revealing

 

[Duncanf]

Good luck i am sure you will both enjoy it. So sexy to read.

 

[drakebelg]

Yes. Just launched her premium bumble and she is going through the men proposed by bumble. She's looking for solo dating.

Went together for dating sexy clothes shopping for a very short skirt, going for lingerie next week.

I'm locked and denied for 10 days with my first ruined orgasm by her yesterday.

I just had to massage her now while wearing a maids min apron. Then I had to insert my cage in her while she vibrated to an intense.

Fingers crossed to her really enjoying it and having success.

 

[Ht805cpl]

Yes. Just launched her premium bumble and she is going through the men proposed by bumble. She's looking for solo dating.

Went together for dating sexy clothes shopping for a very short skirt, going for lingerie next week.

I'm locked and denied for 10 days with my first ruined orgasm by her yesterday.

I just had to massage her now while wearing a maids min apron. Then I had to insert my cage in her while she vibrated to an intense.

Fingers crossed to her really enjoying it and having success.

I do not think her manor of dress is as important as finding the right bull and her willingness to follow through with the plan. As for you I think you need to add this to your caged little self!

 

[drakebelg]

I do not think her manor of dress is as important as finding the right bull and her willingness to follow through with the plan. As for you I think you need to add this to your caged little self!

She said she finds it really exciting to shop with me for sexy clothes for dates with other men. That's already hot.

She knows I am prepared to do whatever she wants and have worn her panties a lot and once I had to dres in a slutty dress, tights etc while fucking her with a strapon.

All the possibilities are there but it's much better when she asks for it.
Love the panties btw.