Wife orgasm struggles

[layla]

Hello again, my wife lately confessed that she would like to do surgery on her vagina to have better orgasms because she said that she is not finishing all the times we are having sex. I asked her if she thinks that my size matters which I have 7 inches, and she said, no! But then I pushed her and I asked her maybe it’s the size, and she said maybe.. it turns me on to find somebody to fuck her with bigger or try Dildo. She dosent like the idea of threesome but I’m dying of trying it.
what is your opinion in general? Please I need this help..
thanks

 

[Garrett]

Hello again, my wife lately confessed that she would like to do surgery on her vagina to have better orgasms because she said that she is not finishing all the times we are having sex. I asked her if she thinks that my size matters which I have 7 inches, and she said, no! But then I pushed her and I asked her maybe it’s the size, and she said maybe.. it turns me on to find somebody to fuck her with bigger or try Dildo. She dosent like the idea of threesome but I’m dying of trying it.
what is your opinion in general? Please I need this help..
thanks

She is telling you without telling you. All women fantasize about a MMf. Two men sucking on their tits at the same time. Start with the dirty talk and dildos. Go slow at her speed. Watch that cock get hard when she finally admits it.

 

[stubbyhubby]

Buy a dildo larger than you, especially thicker. 7 inches is typically more than enough length, but she may be craving something more filling. If she orgasms with the dildo then you know it is you. If she wants you to fuck her and plays with or sucks the dildo, or if she wants to suck you while the dildo is in her, then she wants a mfm.

 

[nicebiguy]

She is telling you without telling you. All women fantasize about a MMf. Two men sucking on their tits at the same time. Start with the dirty talk and dildos. Go slow at her speed. Watch that cock get hard when she finally admits it.

I agree. The biggest sex organ is the brain. Ask her if she cums when she's playing with her pussy. I would try to find out what fantasies she had that made her orgasm.

 

[layla]

Buy a dildo larger than you, especially thicker. 7 inches is typically more than enough length, but she may be craving something more filling. If she orgasms with the dildo then you know it is you. If she wants you to fuck her and plays with or sucks the dildo, or if she wants to suck you while the dildo is in her, then she wants a mfm.

I tried and she dosent like it..

 

[chastetexan]

I agree. The biggest sex organ is the brain. Ask her if she cums when she's playing with her pussy. I would try to find out what fantasies she had that made her orgasm.

This is the answer. She needs something in her head, that she can't focus on during sex. Or she needs a specific rhythm that you can't maintain (no offense, but none of us are vibrators lol). Mine struggles to get a full orgasm during sex, but she has been that way her entire life. But with porn and her vibrator she can get there pretty quick.

I'd be skeptical of surgery, chance things can go wrong. Then again, that's my motto in life and why I have never had lasik. 🙂

 

[goon4BBC]

Honestly you got to to make sacrifices to get her to be comfortable with a MMF experience with you. I say this because she most likely fears the chance you would get jealous if she were to focus, or enjoy herself too much with the other man involved. Most of the time their instinct is right cuz their partner afterwords will complain about how they focused on him the whole time. Showing signs of jealousy and leading to nothing but problems you just invited into your relationship. So shock her by saying she can test the water before diving all in, and you wouldnt mind. As long as you dont have sex with him a second time unless its with you!

 

[athletic_intel]

I tried and she dosent like it..

If you are seven inches its very likely more to do with her being engaged, comfortable and excited during intercourse. She might have insecurities, things on her mind but I agree with chastexan and nicebigguy that her head needs to be into it.

If you've suggested things that throw her off recently it could be these things. For her to get turned on will probably be more to do with reconnecting and her feeling comfortable than size or anything along those lines.

Some women I've met have never really wanted a thressome. They find the idea a bit strange but have enjoyed time away from their husbands if you know what I mean. Sometimes a cuck can become so fixated on the fantasy that they turn their wife off. So maybe focus on reconnecting if you want to have good sex with her?

Otherwise some cucks I met did role play and the wife then found that sexual connection with myself or other men. But this can be risky for a lot of relationships....