I am a husband here 45yo.. Never tried anal with my wife as she says " Not there" whenever i try to touch or finger her anal slightly during sex.. in contrast when she is in mood and horny she moans when i lick her ass or insert my finger slightly.....she let me lick it as much as i need and she moans so loudly even louder than i fuck or lick her pussy....I think my wife feels uneasy thinking of my finger or cock get dirty or something not that she doesnt like the feeling.....my wife doesnt have constipation as well....Any idea how should i proceed and how to make her comfortable with it? Does she require preparation before going for fingering or anal sex always..? i mean enema or something? is it always requires? Anyone got experience of getting your cock or finger get dirt with poo ? pls be openly comment..
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- Thread starter Maheejayasekara
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I started off using a really slim lubed up rubber but plug and slowly worked up bigger over a few weeks until finely she agreed on taking my cock which isn't on the small side ... She orgasmed so quick but as soon as the orgasm is over she wants it out her ass pronto .... We did it quite alot after that until one of her girly friends put it into her head how dangerous it is and now we don't do it anymore 🙄
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You are doing the right thing by licking her ass and playing with it. You just need to start slow. Tongue then finger. Introduce lots of lube. Try to make her cum with just a finger in her ass first. Then get some butt plugs before you try your cock.
More than anything though it’s about her attitude and whether she actually wants to try or not. You should talk about it. If she is game to try and can handle a bit of pain (and most women can) then you are good to go!
More than anything though it’s about her attitude and whether she actually wants to try or not. You should talk about it. If she is game to try and can handle a bit of pain (and most women can) then you are good to go!
impulsively832
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impulsively832
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I would have to sensually restrain her in a head and shoulders down ass up submissive position and then tease her and deny her until pussy is drooling and she is desperate for an orgasm and then the only way she's going to get her orgasm is to let me have that ass
Anal definitely takes some preparation.. Imagine if a woman just bent you over and shoved a dildo right in your ass without prepping.
My wife just let me fuck her ass for the first time after 15 years a couple days ago and the only reason she let me was because she had been drinking tequila. lol
It very well may gross your wife out but just reassure her how hot and sexy it is and ask how it feels often. Be gentle! My wife loves when I just stimulate her ass while fucking her from behind. But typically as soon as I try to put my finger in she pulls away. It's all about the mood she's in and what she wants in the moment.
Keep doing what youre doing and youll be fucking her ass in no time brother!
My wife just let me fuck her ass for the first time after 15 years a couple days ago and the only reason she let me was because she had been drinking tequila. lol
It very well may gross your wife out but just reassure her how hot and sexy it is and ask how it feels often. Be gentle! My wife loves when I just stimulate her ass while fucking her from behind. But typically as soon as I try to put my finger in she pulls away. It's all about the mood she's in and what she wants in the moment.
Keep doing what youre doing and youll be fucking her ass in no time brother!
my wife never would do anal i had her on her right side as my left thumb rub her clit my right hand no my cock lube up i pretended to hit her pussy but i slide it to her asshole
You just like my perverted kinky ideas on how to proceed with assorted sexual escapades
IMO anyone having any anal play should clean themselves out thoroughly before starting,unless you like playing with shi t.
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I’ve found most women enjoy it. The key is slow and gentle and lots of lube. My wife responded to a mini vibrator slowly penetrating her ass while eating her pussy. She orgasmed with the 4” fully inserted in her. Afterwords we introduced slightly larger vibrators until she was comfortable with 6”. I then fucked her pussy from behind with 2-3 fingers inserted in her ass. When I was able to insert all 4 fingers and her being comfortable with it, she was ready and wanting my cock in her ass. Now, anal sex is about 25% of her being fucked.
I say to all men who want their wife to do anal, Lead by example, show her how much you love taking a cock in your ass so she can see it’s not all about her
Wife here. For years anal was a hard "no way" then one day it wasn't my choice anymore,. Now I:m quite happy doing anal on demand. But you better demand it and not take "no" for an answer if you want it. - kathy
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Early in our swinging life, we were playing with a lady how loved anal and my man was fucking her ass all the time, I was a bit jealous and asked her how or why she was so willing, I had only done it a few times and never liked it, I was so tight and it was painful, she taught me to relax and open up, she also played with my ass teaching me to relax and once I finally learns to relax and open up, I was able to take my well hung husband with no pain, and very soon learned to enjoy it, I finally learned how she could be so open to anal all the time, and I too became a lover of anal sex.
