Making a Hotwife!

Beyond the details of this getaway, my wife is very predictable. I can tell where I stand with her based upon how she treats me. If she is distant and disengaged with me, that’s when I should be concerned. When she is very aware of me and my needs, then we let the horses run. She has been very aware of my needs for quite some time and has been especially keen recently. While, I can’t predict the future, I do my best to manage the odds while we continue to play with fire.
This is a key development in your "gauging" your relationship. You've picked up on when to be proactive. It's extremely positive that she was firm about "no one on one" and everybody plays together. Things certainly feel different this time around. I can understand why you feel safe/confident about going forward. From the way you write it, it feels like she not so oblivious to your experience.

I know you're not expecting this but I think you'll earn points with your wife for having the courage and trust in her to make it work. She has to recognize that even being open to trying again with someone that nearly broke you up is a huge mental/emotional hurdle for you. It proves you have skin in the game and you're serious. I hope and pray she realizes this and makes an impression on her.

I'm strong proponent of your, "let the horses run" when things are in alignment and way fun. I'm looking forward to your take on everything afterwards! I think things are turning your way.
 
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Well Rick, if you need pictures in order to believe me, that’s your problem. My wife was 100% against pictures for a very long time for fear of the kids finding them. That being said, I do have a handful of photos and several videos from her recent play. I do not have her permission to share any photos or videos here. She isn’t an exhibitionist and doesn’t get anything out of guys commenting on her photos. I’m sharing my experience with others in hopes that it helps others.

it took over two years to even get pics and videos for my own pleasure. I’m not going to break her trust to convince you that it happened Sorry!

I would love to share her photos and get feedback on her sexy body and various adventures. If I ever get her permission, I will gladly share.
Quite right.... who cares what others think or believe, you're not beholden to or have anyting to prove to others...and trust is everything, once that goes, you're left with fuck all.... fair play to you, absolutely right! 👏
 
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Well, last weekend was a total bust. The timing of bad weather in our area was the perfect cock block. The forecast included the most snowfall we had seen all winter and the snow was supposed to fall in several rounds from Friday afternoon through Saturday evening. As I worked on Friday morning, I kept an eye on the forecast and while I was not pleased with the weather, I wasn't planning to give up easily. We had planned to get on the road early in the afternoon and based upon the forecast, we should have been able to make it to our destination prior to when the snow flew.

Shortly before noon, my sexy wife came to my home office and asked if I thought we should postpone the trip due to weather. I told her I didn't think it would be too bad and the weather where we were going wasn't going to be as bad as at home. Also, her friend was coming from the south and shouldn't have much weather to contend to either. Despite my attempts to stick to the original plan, my wife eventually decided that she wanted to avoid travelling in unknown weather.

And with that, our weekend turned from sex-fest to a sex free weekend at home working on home projects and hanging out with family. Not a horrible weekend by any means, but not the weekend I was hoping for.
 
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Well, last weekend was a total bust. The timing of bad weather in our area was the perfect cock block. The forecast included the most snowfall we had seen all winter and the snow was supposed to fall in several rounds from Friday afternoon through Saturday evening. As I worked on Friday morning, I kept an eye on the forecast and while I was not pleased with the weather, I wasn't planning to give up easily. We had planned to get on the road early in the afternoon and based upon the forecast, we should have been able to make it to our destination prior to when the snow flew.

Shortly before noon, my sexy wife came to my home office and asked if I thought we should postpone the trip due to weather. I told her I didn't think it would be too bad and the weather where we were going wasn't going to be as bad as at home. Also, her friend was coming from the south and shouldn't have much weather to contend to either. Despite my attempts to stick to the original plan, my wife eventually decided that she wanted to avoid travelling in unknown weather.

And with that, our weekend turned from sex-fest to a sex free weekend at home working on home projects and hanging out with family. Not a horrible weekend by any means, but not the weekend I was hoping for.
Like a baseball game getting rained out! Sometimes the gods conspire against you.