my wife is old school

she don't believe in messing around if your married even if i tell her to she gets mad. any thoughts
My wife and I had a discussion about her being a hotwife a long time ago. She wanted to know, 1) what's in it for myself and 2) Shouldn't/wouldn't it upset me to have another man taking her sexually.
I'm only speaking for myself, but I told her, to me, I believe most men look at sex as more of an activity. Where as women tend to equate it more to love (i.e. making love). I also told her that, while I enjoy having sex with other women when swinging, and I enjoy it. I really get turned on by HER pleasure, regardless of who is pleasuring her and having to wait my turn, just makes taking her so much better.
 
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